When you are considering adoption, ask yourself what you are hoping to gain. Are you ready to love someone as your own flesh and blood? Are you prepared to face family members that don’t feel the same way as you? Are you willing to accept that not all children are the same and there is no way to predict if a child will have special needs or not? If you answered yes to these questions, then I truly pray that God opens the door to you for adoption.

Take it from me, if you can’t say yes to some of these questions please pray about it. As a child that was not treated the same as her parent’s biological children, I beg you to reconsider choosing adoption.